Natalie Boterman, BFA, MFA

“I am out with lanterns, looking for myself.” - Emily Dickinson

Most of us arrive in therapy carrying a lantern, seeking a self we suspect is in there somewhere, though we don’t know how to begin realizing it. I see people as already whole, but with things in the way of feeling at home within themselves. What you need is good light, good company, and permission to look at what’s actually there.

But light is not always kind. It shows the rooms we’ve kept closed and the furniture we’ve spent years walking around. Looking honestly is often disorienting before it is freeing. I would like to help you carry your lantern.

I came to this work through fine art and philosophy (BFA, MFA), and I still think like an artist. I’m drawn to the story beneath the one people first tell, and to the questions we usually rush past: what it means to live well, and what keeps us from it.

My therapeutic approach is integrative, which means therapy is shaped around you rather than around a single method. We might talk, sit with silence, make sense of old patterns, or build practical skills for the everyday. Some days will be philosophical and some will be plainly practical, and both are welcome here. I don’t expect you to arrive with things figured out. I’d rather meet you in the uncertainty, with curiosity, care, and respect. Together we can work toward self-acceptance, clarity, and a life that feels like yours.

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